Mary’s extraordinary life

Mary’s life like Joseph’s was very unique and remarkable life.  She was a young virgin possibly about 15 years old, whom God chose to bring His promised Son into the world through a miraculous conception.  The angel of the Lord, Gabriel, was sent to give her the announcement that she would bear Jesus.

Luke 1:28-33

“Greetings, favored one! The Lord is with you.” But she was much perplexed by his words and pondered what sort of greeting this might be. The angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. And now, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you will name him Jesus. He will be great, and will be called the Son of the Most High, and the Lord God will give to him the throne of his ancestor David. He will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.”

An angelic visitation alone would startle anyone but the way he addressed her and what he said to her was even more startling!

She had found favor with God.  Special grace was given to Mary

God was with her.  These were words of assurance that God’s favor was with her. There had been 400 years of silence before John the Baptist came to proclaim the coming of the Messiah.  During these 400 years it would have been a natural response of the Jews to think that God was no longer with them as he had been silent.  These words were comforting for Mary.

She was the one chosen to bring the Messiah into the world, who would rule forever.

For a Jewish woman this was like winning the lottery!  She was specially chosen, given special grace and the privilege of bearing the Son of God.

This news was beyond her understanding and she like anyone else asked how this could be.

The angel said to her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be holy; he will be called Son of God. (Luke 1:35)

What she was going to experience was a God thing.  He was going to sovereignly through the Holy Spirit enable Mary to bear the Son of God.

And now, your relative Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son; and this is the sixth month for her who was said to be barren. For nothing will be impossible with God.” Then Mary said, “Here am I, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word.” Then the angel departed from her. (Luke 1:36-38)

The assurance she needed was in part confirmed when the angel told her of Elizabeth’s miraculous pregnancy. The words, “For nothing will be impossible with God” were meant to stir faith in her heart that these words would truly come to pass.

When we compare our lives to Mary’s we can draw some similarities at least in how God deals with us.

We like Mary have found favor in God’s eyes.  God’s grace has been extended to each one of us to bring us where we are today.  None of us have been self-appointed to be here and to be involved in the ministries God has given us.  Our mission comes from God and ultimately He is the one who is going to bring his purposes to be established through us.  We are favored by God, we are graced by God to be a part of his Kingdom purposes.

God is with us.  This is the message of Christmas, Immanuel, God is with us.  We are not alone.  We have a God who is intimately involved in our lives.  He knows us, loves us, cares for us and desires the best for us. We are not orphaned children who have been abandoned.

Like Mary we don’t completely understand how God works in our lives and how he will bring to pass the mission he has given us.  We may not feel prepared, adequate, equipped or possessing the talents needed to do what God has asked us to do.  I remember one of my Bible School teachers saying, “If you can do anything but ministry, do it.”  These were not words to discourage the students from ministry but were words that challenged them to truly examine their hearts and be certain that God had called them into ministry

This past week we visited a family with the pastor of the Assemblies of God church in Alotenango and he shared his testimony with them.  He had a very good job working in a coffee farm but one day the administrator who was his father, told him his job was over.  He was perplexed as to why he was being dismissed because he had not done anything wrong.  At this point in his life, God had been dealing with him about becoming a pastor but he did not want to be a pastor.  When he looked at the troubles pastors encountered he knew that he did not want to be one.  He got a job working at another coffee farm but became ill the first day and was sick for a week.  He began to realize that God was using these unwanted circumstances to confirm his calling to ministry. He followed God’s call and has been pastoring for many years.  He needed God’s nudge to confirm His calling.  He knew what God wanted and was from this point obedient to follow God’s call to be a pastor. He could have refused to obey but in doing so would live a life of regret.

Like Mary, God has given each of us big responsibilities that are beyond our abilities to accomplish.  When God calls us to his service, he calls to do things that are beyond our abilities.  When we are obedient to God call, he will do the impossible in accordance to his will.  He has given us the Holy Spirit, just as Mary had been assured that through the power of the Spirit, what was promised would come to pass.

Through the Holy Spirit, God gives us the power to do what he has called us to do.  God wants to overshadow us with his Holy Spirit to enable us to do his work.  Thank God that we have the Holy Spirit at work in us to teach us, guide us and help us understand God’s mind and purposes so we can do what he wants us to do.

Mary’s response to all that had been said to her was a response that God loves to hear from of us. 

Then Mary said, “Here am I, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word.” Then the angel departed from her. (Lk 1:38).

Mary made herself available.  She surrendered her life to God and was ready to do what God wanted her to do. God is looking for people who will make themselves available.  When a task needs to be done, God looks for people who are available to do what is needed. Some people stay away from certain ministries, they make themselves unavailable for a variety of reasons.  Tom Elie who leads Oasis World Ministries, conduct evangelism training.  One of the prayers he offers daily is simply, “I am available.”  Available to share the gospel with anyone God places in my path today.

Mary saw her role as being a servant of the Lord and this is our role as well.  We are called to serve not as slaves of God but as co-workers with God.  We serve God’s purposes and labor with him to accomplish what he desires.  He is our master and we are his servants whom he entrusts great responsibilities and gives us many opportunities to work with Him. He may call us to serve in a place that is hard, doing ministry that is difficult with people who are not very receptive. We have to be available to serve His purposes and his plans.  He assigns us to different works of ministry and he can move us around to wherever he needs us. When I joined the U.S. Army my drill instructor made it very clear that my life was no longer my own.  The U.S. Army owned me and they could put me wherever they wanted me to go.  We filled out a form that everyone called “the dream sheet” which allowed you to choose where you wanted to serve and what you wanted to do.  I don’t think it was ever looked at by anyone after it was submitted as they military put you where they needed people to serve.  For almost everyone the “Dream sheet” never became a reality.

I don’t see God in the same light as the military, he operates differently in that he does not force you to do something but gives you the opportunity to serve in an area that you may not feel qualified.  If he calls you to do something, he will help you do it.

Mary submitted her will to the will of God. She did not resist or try to negotiate with God.  Her submission was 100%.  This should be our response as well.  God’s will for Mary was extraordinary.  It was exciting, scary at times, inconvenient, challenging, but ultimately supremely fulfilling and worth every effort she exerted.  When we submit our will to God’s will we open ourselves to tremendous things that can happen. If we insist on doing our will we will miss out on greater things that could happen in our lives.  When we resist we restrict ourselves from experiencing the greatness of God at work in our lives. God’s will is good because God is good.  What he desires for us is much more than we could ever ask or think.

After the angelic visitation, Mary went to visit Elizabeth.  Mary shared these words in response to Elizabeth’s confirming and congratulatory words to her.

And Mary said,

    “My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has looked with favor on the lowliness of his servant. Surely, from now on all generations will call me blessed; for the Mighty One has done great things for me, and holy is his name.  His mercy is for those who fear him from generation to generation. He has shown strength with his arm; he has scattered the proud in the thoughts of their hearts. He has brought down the powerful from their thrones, and lifted up the lowly; he has filled the hungry with good things, and sent the rich away empty. He has helped his servant Israel, in remembrance of his mercy, according to the promise he made to our ancestors, to Abraham and to his descendants forever.” (Lk 1:46–55).

Mary was filled with praise to God for what he had done for her and for her nation Israel.  She knew God as a God who was:

Mighty

Holy

Merciful

Strong

Just

Good

Helpful

Faithful

This is how we should think about God and how we should share him with others.  Unfortunately some Christians do not share a very positive image of God and that image does not draw people to become believers.  God’s nature and his character are critical to our understanding of who he is and how he operates in our lives. Without correct knowledge of God we can present him inaccurately and keep people from experiencing him in truth. Dean Sherman has said, “Never judge the Scriptures based on your experiences but judge your experiences through the Scriptures.”  The same can be said about our understanding of God.  We cannot rely on our experiences to give us an accurate perspective of God, we must rely on the Scriptures to show us who God is and how he works in us and in the world.

Mary knew her God because she knew the Scriptures. Though she was young, she had a firm foundation regarding her knowledge of God and could place her trust in him.  We can learn much from her life and I would encourage you to go through the Scriptures that talk about her experiences and responses.

Mary lived and extraordinary life and so can we. She was to be honored among women but not honored above women.  She was like you and I and what God accomplished in her life is an encouragement to all of us of the great things God can do in our lives if we respond as Mary did.

Joseph’s incredible life.

Joseph lived an incredible life and there are many things we can learn from him as we look as his life.

Jesus was not born into a rich family.  Mary and Joseph came from very poor homes, ones you would not expect a King to come.  Joseph was a carpenter, a job that provided for the family but certainly not a lucrative money making profession.

Joseph’s decision to marry Mary took place in three stages.  William Barclay in his “Daily Bible Study” explains each stage.

(I) there was the engagement. The engagement was often made when the couple were only children. It was usually made through the parents, or through a professional match-maker. And it was often made without the couple involved ever having seen each other. Marriage was held to be far too serious a step to be left to the dictates of the human heart.

(ii) There was the betrothal. The betrothal was what we might call the ratification of the engagement into which the couple had previously entered. At this point the engagement, entered into by the parents or the match-maker, could be broken if the girl was unwilling to go on with it. But once the betrothal was entered into, it was absolutely binding. It lasted for one year. During that year the couple were known as man and wife, although they had not the rights of man and wife. It could not be terminated in any other way than by divorce. In the Jewish law we frequently find what is to us a curious phrase. A girl whose fiancé had died during the year of betrothal is called "a virgin who is a widow". It was at this stage that Joseph and Mary were. They were betrothed, and if Joseph wished to end the betrothal, he could do so in no other way than by divorce; and in that year of betrothal Mary was legally known as his wife.

(iii) The third stage was the marriage proper, which took place at the end of the year of betrothal.

 His engagement to Mary was a very serious commitment to her.  During the normal one year waiting period, the groom would work and save money to be able to provide a home for his wife. The time between was a sort of testing of fidelity with the couple having little, if any, contact with each other.

I am sure that Joseph and Mary where both looking forward to their wedding date.  Jewish weddings were very important for both families.  The actual wedding did not last only a day but lasted a week in which the couple stayed at the groom’s family’s home and were treated like a Prince and Princess.  Friends of the bride and groom came to visit during the week so it was like an open house.  But we do not know if Joseph and Mary were able to have a true wedding ceremony and celebration as described.  Her pregnancy most likely changed everything they had planned.

When we look at the life of Joseph we note several things about him.

Joseph was a chosen man.

Joseph was chosen by God and was a recipient of God’s grace.  He was from the right lineage from which the Messiah would be born.  His ancestry was recorded by Matthew to the time of Abraham, the father of the Jewish faith.  Abraham received the promise that through his lineage the blessing of God would come.  The blessing is singular indicating it was meant to be the Messiah.  Joseph was chosen by God to be the final link in the ancestry of the Messiah.  It could have been one of Joseph’s brothers instead of him but he was specially chosen by God to be the earthly father of Jesus.  This was an act of God’s grace that Joseph specifically was chosen.  He did not deserve it nor was he a person who others would probably say was the perfect future father as he was from a humble family.

Each of us in the same way have been recipients of the grace of God.  Our salvation is totally an act of God’s grace to us.  It is his gift which he freely gives to us but we have to receive it by faith.

Joseph was a troubled man.

God’s choice of Joseph was not quickly accepted by him.  He did not understand what God was doing and his perspective at the time regarding Mary’s pregnancy was a shock to him and Joseph did not know how to respond.  Questions must have flooded his mind and doubts about Mary’s fidelity had to enter his thinking. Being pregnant before marriage was not acceptable in the Jewish culture. 

Jewish law provided that his betrothed, because of her unfaithfulness, could be placed before the elders for judgment and stoned to death or he could chose to privately divorce her with two witnesses testifying of his statement of divorce.  Joseph opted to just put her away quietly without public knowledge. Betrothals or marriage engagements in those ancient times were binding and could only be terminated by an official divorce decree.

Mary’s pregnancy would damage both of their reputations and Joseph was greatly troubled by her news.

At times we like Joseph experience situations that are unplanned and at times unwanted.  We may lose a job, suffer a sickness, experience financial difficulties, be misunderstood or mistreated, neglected or overlooked, lied to or lied about, and a host of other situations that we can encounter in life in which we do not understand why they are happening.  We are troubled because we lack understanding and often we do not see things from God’s perspective and his plan for our lives.

Joseph was a righteous man.

Joseph was a man who followed the law and wanted to do what was right. He was a man of character whom God could entrust this mission. The best option he could think of was to secretly end the relationship.  He did not want to continue his promise to Mary as the covenant they had made in the engagement was broken.  I am sure that he felt shame, disillusionment, discouragement and a lot of emotional ups and downs after receiving the news.

But Joseph was a righteous man and he did not want to publicly announce his intentions to end the relationship.  I am sure he was heartbroken over the situation and God understood that he needed a special message to convince him that what Mary had told him was true.

In our lives God is looking for people whose hearts are right before him.  People who have his character and whom he can entrust his mission.  Our character will determine our mission God wants to give us.  If we cannot be trusted to stay faithful we will not be given much responsibility in His Kingdom.  Joseph was a man God could use because he was a man of Godly character.

Joseph was a relieved man.

God met Joseph at his point of need.  Joseph needed to have a sure word that Mary was telling the truth.  God sent the angel Gabriel to him and gave him the message he needed to hear. We don’t know what Joseph’s reaction was to this message but we do know that he did not end the relationship but continued to be engaged to Mary.  The news from the angel convinced him that this really was a God thing that was happening and he was specially chosen by God to carry out the mission God was giving him that no one else in history would be able to say they did.  Perhaps Joseph understood the magnitude of what was going to happen and he felt relieved that God was truly involved in this situation.  Joseph had to be convinced because of his doubts but also because of the trials he and Mary would face in raising Jesus. Throughout Mary’s pregnancy there must have been many people who judged them, possibly gossiped about them and thought badly about them.  Their story of her pregnancy was difficult to believe.  Once Mary began showing that she was pregnant the speculations ended and more accusations must have started.  The assurance they had received from the angels gave them strength to endure whatever came their way.

Any doubts he may have had were most likely dispelled when the lowly shepherds came to worship Jesus in the manger after his birth.  The humiliating conditions of the birth place of Jesus must have affected Joseph.  As a man and soon to be father, I am sure he wanted a better and cleaner place for his wife to give birth.  The rejection of the inn keeper must have been a very humbling experience for both of Joseph and Mary.  Would it have made any difference if they had announced that Mary was going to give birth to the Messiah?  Would the inn keeper have made a special place for Mary to give birth?  Joseph did not demand special treatment but accepted what he was given and probably did the best he could to make the manger as comfortable as possible for Mary.

The arrival of the shepherds with their story of the angelic visitation was another confirmation to Joseph that Mary was giving birth to the Savior of the World.  The excitement of the birth combined with the visitation of the shepherds made for an extraordinary night!

In our lives we also need the assurance and confirmation from God that what we are experiencing is part of God’s plan.  We may not have complete understanding until later but we desire to have the assurance that we are in the right place at the right time with the right people who are doing the right thing.

Joseph was a responsible man.

Joseph accepted his role as what we would call today, “the step father”.  He remained faithful to Mary throughout her pregnancy and cared for her. He took her to be his wife and fulfilled his promise to her.  Being married was a great responsibility but being the father of the Son of God must have been heavy on his mind. What must it have been like for him to know that his wife was carrying the Son of God, the Messiah and Savior of the world?  He would become the earthly father to this royal son, both a privilege no one else would ever know and a responsibility that was beyond his comprehension how he would be able to fulfill his role.

When Jesus was born Joseph gave him his name “Jesus”.  He was told in the angelic visitation that this would be his name and Joseph did as he was told.  The name Jesus means “Savior”. His name had great significance and it was important that Joseph give him this name.

But even as a proud father, we do not read where he publicly announced that he and Mary were raising the Messiah the Jews had been waiting for to arrive.  How could you keep this news silent?  Wouldn’t you want everyone to know?  But Joseph did not do this as far as we know.  He and Mary kept this information private which must have been difficult to do.

Throughout Jesus’s life we can see how Joseph fulfilled his responsibilities of raising Jesus.  He provide a home for him, he fulfilled the Jewish laws of circumcision at 8 days old. He protected him by fleeing to Egypt as instructed to avoid the jealous wrath of Herod who sought to kill all boys 2 years old or less.  He brought Jesus to the temple when he was 12 years old as required to dedicate him. He taught Jesus the trade of a carpenter to help him provide for his needs. Jesus became a responsible adult and it appears that Joseph died before Jesus began his public ministry as he is never mentioned in the gospels during this time.  Jesus took on the responsibility as the oldest son to care for his widowed mother.

As Disciples of Christ we too must fulfill our responsibilities no matter how difficult they may seem at times.  Often the easiest thing to do is quit, walk away and leave everything behind which often includes a disaster that will be created.  We will all leave a legacy behind regarding the fulfillment of our responsibilities God has entrusted to us.  I think we all want to hear Jesus say “well done my good and faithful servant.”  We want to end our mission knowing we have accomplished what God has given us to do.

Joseph was a rewarded man.

Joseph’s life of obedience, sacrifice and service was worthy of receiving his reward.  God is a rewarder of those who live by faith and fulfill their mission.  Throughout his life he must have thought about the mission God had given him in raising Jesus.  We have very little information about the childhood and young adult years of Jesus.  He was most likely a normal child who went through the phases of growing up and Joseph was there to guide him.  Raising Jesus was a reward in itself.  Joseph most likely died before Jesus began his ministry and he went on to receive his heavenly reward.

During our time on earth we may not see all the results of our work or be rewarded by people.  The acclaim of man is not what is really important but we know that God sees what we do and he will reward us for our labor for his kingdom and our service to others.

William Barclay in his "Daily Bible Study" cited this story.

One of the loveliest of all stories is that of The Fourth Wise Man. His name was Arabian. He set out to follow the star and he took with him a sapphire, a ruby and a pearl beyond price as gifts for the King. He was riding hard to meet his three friends, Caspar, Melchior and Balthasar, at the agreed place. The time was short; they would leave if he was late. Suddenly he saw a dim figure on the ground before him. It was a traveler stricken with fever. If he stayed to help he would miss his friends. He did stay; he helped and healed the man. But now he was alone. He needed camels and bearers to help him across the desert because he had missed his friends and their caravan. He had to sell his sapphire to get them; and he was sad because the King would never have his gem.

He journeyed on and in due time came to Bethlehem, but again he was too late. Joseph and Mary and the baby had gone. Then there came the soldiers to carry out Herod's command that the children should be slain. Artaban was in a house where there was a little child. The tramp of the soldiers came to the door; the weeping of stricken mothers could be heard. Artaban stood in the doorway, tall and dark, with the ruby in his hand and bribed the captain not to enter. The child was saved; the mother was overjoyed; but the ruby was gone; and Artaban was sad because the King would never have his ruby.

For years he wandered looking in vain for the King. More than thirty years afterwards he came to Jerusalem. There was a crucifixion that day. When Artaban heard of the Jesus being crucified, he sounded wondrous like the King and Artaban hurried towards Calvary. Maybe his pearl, the loveliest in all the world, could buy the life of the King. Down the street came a girl fleeing from a band of soldiers. "My father is in debt," she cried, "and they are taking me to sell as a slave to pay the debt. Save me!" Artaban hesitated; then sadly he took out his pearl, gave it to the soldiers and bought the girl's freedom.

On a sudden the skies were dark; there was an earthquake and a flying tile hit Artaban on the head. He sank half-conscious to the ground. The girl pillowed his head on her lap. Suddenly his lips began to move. "Not so, my Lord. For when saw I thee hungered and fed thee? Or thirsty, and gave thee drink? When saw I thee a stranger, and took thee in? Or naked and clothed thee? When saw I thee sick in prison, and came unto thee? Thirty and three years have I looked for thee; but I have never seen thy face, nor ministered to thee, my King." And then like a whisper from very far away, there came a voice. "Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as thou hast done it unto one the least of these my brethren, thou hast done it unto me." And Artaban smiled in death because he knew that the King had received his gifts.

Our lives are to be marked by our service and willingness to sacrifice and use whatever resources God has given us to be a blessing to others.  Joseph's life was one of service and sacrifice to raise Jesus and prepare him for the mission God had given to him.

Joseph’s life reflects our lives in many ways and is a model to us.

He was a chosen man by the grace of God to have the mission of raising the Son of God.

He was a troubled man having received news that was not what he expected.

He was a righteous man who obeyed God’s laws and wanted to do what was right.

He was a relieved man after receiving the assurance from the angel that the situation was ordained of God.

He was a responsible man who faithfully fulfilled his mission.

He was a rewarded man during his time on earth and he received his eternal reward in heaven.

Legalism or Love?

The Pharisees were a unique group of people among the Jews.  They were dedicated to preserving the Law and became very legalistic in their observance of it.  To the Pharisees the Law was the Word of God and it was their greatest possession. When Israel was permitted to return to Jerusalem during their captivity to the Babylonians, the Law was reestablished by Ezra and Nehemiah.  From this point in their history, the study of the Law became the greatest of all professions.  The Scribes were the first group of people who dedicated themselves to study the Law and interpret how it should be applied.  They broke the Law into thousands of rules and regulations to make sure they did not violate the Law.

For example the command to not work on the Sabbath had to be defined. 39 laws were written to define what could not be done on the Sabbath.  Only an exact number of steps on could take on the Sabbath.  They also limited the weight of something they could carry to be equal to 2 dried figs so as to not be guilty of working. Even thinking about work was forbidden. By the time they finished interpreting the Laws they had amassed more than 50 volumes to hold the mass of regulations.

The Pharisees became of sect of the Jews after the Syrians tried to conquer them in 155 B.C.  They wanted to eradicate the Jewish beliefs and replace them with their Greek religion and customs.  The word Pharisee means “separated ones”.  They dedicate their whole lives to be careful and meticulous to observe every rule and regulation that the Scribes had worked out.  They were legalists but they were also very dedicated to their beliefs.

William Barclay in his Daily Bible Study series noted that there were 7 kinds of Pharisees the Jews themselves gave classification.

The Talmud distinguishes seven different kinds of Pharisee.

(1) There was the Shoulder Pharisee. He was meticulous in his observance of the law; but he wore his good deeds upon his shoulder. He was out for a reputation for purity and goodness. True, he obeyed the law, but he did so in order to be noticed.

(2) There was the Wait-a-little Pharisee. He was the Pharisee who could always produce an entirely valid excuse for putting off a good deed. He professed the creed of the strictest Pharisees, but he could always find an excuse for allowing practice to lag behind. He spoke, but he did not do.

(3) There was the Bruised or Bleeding Pharisee. The Talmud speaks of the plague of self-afflicting Pharisees. These Pharisees received their name for this reason. Women had a very low status in Palestine. No really strict orthodox teacher would be seen talking to a woman in public, even if that woman was his own wife or sister. These Pharisees went even further; they would not even allow themselves to look at a woman on the street. In order to avoid doing so, they would shut their eyes, and so bump into walls and buildings and obstructions. They thus bruised and wounded themselves, and their wounds and bruises gained them a special reputation for exceeding piety.

(4) There was the Pharisee who was variously described as the Pestle and Mortar Pharisee, or the Hump-backed Pharisee, or the Tumbling Pharisee. Such men walked in such ostentatious humility that they were bent like a pestle in a mortar or like a hunchback. They were so humble that they would not even lift their feet from the ground and so tripped over every obstruction they met. Their humility was a self-advertising ostentation.

(5) There was the Ever-reckoning or Compounding Pharisee. This kind of Pharisee was forever reckoning up his good deeds; he was forever striking a balance sheet between himself and God, and he believed that every good deed he did put God a little further in his debt. To him, religion was always to be reckoned in terms of a profit and loss account.

(6) There was the Timid or Fearing Pharisee. He was always in dread of divine punishment. He was, therefore, always cleansing the outside of the cup and the platter, so that he might seem to be good. He saw religion in terms of judgment and life in terms of a terror-stricken evasion of this judgment.

(7) Finally, there was the God-fearing Pharisee; he was the Pharisee who really and truly loved God and who found his delight in obedience to the law of God, however difficult it might be.

(Barclay, W. (2001). The Gospel of Matthew (Third Ed., pp. 330–331). Edinburgh: Saint Andrew Press.)

Jesus reprimanded them severely for their beliefs and actions that placed people in bondage to keeping all the rules they created to make sure the laws were not violated. Their righteousness was based on their obedience to keeping all the laws they created. 

Matthew 23:1–4

  Then Jesus said to the crowds and to his disciples: ‘The scribes and Pharisees sit on Moses’ seat. Therefore do and observe everything they tell you; but do not act as they act; for they speak, but they do not do. They bind burdens that are heavy and hard to bear, and place them on men’s shoulders; but they themselves refuse to lift a finger to remove them.’

Jesus instructed the people to keep the principles that come from the Law which are very simple. The Law given by Moses focused on two things: Reverence for God and respect for others.

 Out of our reverence for God we

Place no other gods before Him (Ex. 20.2)

Make no graven images and  worship them (Ex. 20.4)

Use God’s name in vain (Ex. 20:7)

Keep the Sabbath Day holy (Ex. 20:8)

Out of respect for others we:

Honor our Father and Mother  (Ex. 20.12)

Do not murder (Ex. 20:13)

Do not commit adultery (Ex. 20:14)

Do not steal (Ex. 20:15)

Do not bear false witness (Ex. 20:16)

Do not covet anything that belongs to someone else (Ex. 20:17

Our love for God results in our reverence toward him.  Our love for others is demonstrated by the respect we give them.

Augustine said, “Love God and do whatever you want.”  This is not a license to do anything want to do but holds us to the principle of what does it mean to love God.  We demonstrate our love to God also through the way we treat others.  The apostle John, the apostle of love, wrote in 1 John 4:20-21:

“Those who say, “I love God,” and hate their brothers or sisters, are liars; for those who do not love a brother or sister whom they have seen, cannot love God whom they have not seen. The commandment we have from him is this: those who love God must love their brothers and sisters also.

The Pharisees were guilty of placing rules and regulations above relationships in which love was demonstrated. 

Jesus used the example of the story of the Good Samaritan to demonstrate to the Jewish lawyer who knew the Law what it meant to be considered a good neighbor (Luke 10:29-38)  The two people who passed by the injured man were a Priest and a Levite.  Both knew the Law and interpreted it legalistically.  They knew they would be unclean if they touched someone who was dead and they were unwilling to break the law to render aid to the injured man. 

The Samaritan was praised by Jesus for his actions to help the injured man.  The Samaritan saw the need and made it a priority to help, not an option to consider or worse something to avoid.  He made himself available perhaps because he may have been in a similar situation in the past or that he put himself in the situation of the injured person and he would have wanted someone to help him. The Samaritan went beyond what may have been the expectation of others by taking him to a place to rest and being willing to pay for any expenses. His heart was in the right place and it was a reflection of God’s heart for humanity.

Jesus in his ministry touched people he should never have touched if he was to be legalistic about the Law.  He touched a leper, allowed a woman with a bleeding issue to touch him and did not declare himself unclean, and touched a dead girl by taking her hand to raise her from the bed.  Jesus was a healer, he cared for the needs of people and had no issue with breaking the letter of the law to fulfill the spirit of the law. He also broke the law when he allowed his disciples to eat corn on the Sabbath which was a violation because they were preparing food.

The legalism of the Pharisees kept them from experiencing God’s heart for people in need. Their hearts were hardened.  They became more concerned about being seen as a pious person than being a practical person who cared for others.  They loved being recognized and honored for their dedication to keeping the Law.  Jesus exposed them as hypocrites and people who were all about putting on a show. He called them out and labeled them with terms that were not pleasant but truthful.

Mt. 23.16 Blind guides

Mt. 23.17 Blind fools

Mt. 23.27 like white washed tombs, full of hypocrisy and lawlessness

Mt. 23.33 snakes and den of vipers

Jesus extended mercy to all kinds of people who had all kinds of problems but he had little tolerance for the Scribes and Pharisees because of their hypocrisy and misrepresentation of God.  They were zealous but totally mistaken on how to be righteous before God.

Paul before his conversion was a Pharisee. 

If anyone else has reason to be confident in the flesh, I have more: circumcised on the eighth day, a member of the people of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew born of Hebrews; as to the law, a Pharisee; as to zeal, a persecutor of the church; as to righteousness under the law, blameless. (Php 3:4–6).

He was so zealous for God that he persecuted the early believers in Christ.  After his conversion experience he was set aside by God for several years.  During this time I believe God reprogrammed his theology so that he could reach out to the Gentiles and correctly understand that the Law was completely fulfilled in Jesus. It was no longer the basis of righteousness as the Pharisees believed. Christ set Paul free from the Law and he declared this among the people. The letter to the Galatians was written to set the church straight regarding the observance of the Law.  Paul was a champion for freedom from the Law and was inclusive of the Gentiles who believed in Christ but did not follow the laws.

As followers of Christ we are still held accountable to the moral laws God has given us but we no longer need to fulfill all the ceremonial laws practiced by the Jews.

We must guard our hearts from becoming like the Scribes and Pharisees.  Some believers fall into the trap of living by a set of rules that may be self- imposed or imposed by abusive spiritual leaders.  The true test of anything regarding our conduct and practice as believers is whether it fulfills the law of love toward God, loving ourselves or to our neighbor.  If we understand what Godly love is and allow it to govern our lives we will not fall into the bondage of legalism. In our relationships with others we must always guard ourselves from becoming legalistic and we lose our love for others.  Josh McDowell has stated in one of his books, “Rules without relationships lead to rebellion.” We can become very judgmental of others and critical of them if we do not have a good relationship with them.  When we take the time to understand and develop healthy relationships we will find that we will be less critical and more loving toward them.  It does not mean that we do not hold people accountable for their actions but the way we interact with them is marked by love and an attitude of helping them rather than condemning them.

God desires that we be free from controlling people and controlling ideas that make us captives. Spiritually mature believers should readily recognize Pharisaical leaders and refuse to allow them to impose control upon them. 

We also need to look at ourselves in light of what the Pharisees were like.

1.       Am I hypocritical? Do I say things that are not in line with my conduct?  Do I have different standards for myself than I have for others?

2.      Am I a controlling person?  Do I place restriction on others so I can control them?

3.      Am I concerned that I present a good image to others and cover up my weaknesses or sins? Am I truly vulnerable to reveal myself as I really am?

4.      Am I a “black and white” thinker?  No gray areas in my understanding and judgment of people or ideas?

5.      Do I seek attention and recognition for my good deeds or my personal holiness?

6.      Do I do things out of obligation or fear of what may happen and not true love for God or others.

7.      Do I see myself as indispensable and irreplaceable?  God needs me.

8.      Do I get angry or offended when I am confronted by someone?

We will never attract people to the Lord with a Pharisaical attitude. Choose to love others instead of condemning and judging them as the Pharisees.